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As a token of appreciation for your faith and for trusting me enough to pre-order, you will be rewarded handsomely.

This book prepares a man for marriage before he is in one. Included is the book, the audiobook in my own voice, and a reader that follows along while I read it to you. Make a one-time payment and every future edition is yours for free.

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Marriage Is Not For The Faint-Hearted

What most men miss before they say I do

Most men prepare for the wedding and not for the marriage, then spend a decade watching it slowly die, wondering why everything keeps getting harder. They end up either roommates or divorced. Sixteen chapters on what covenant actually is, what it is not, the mistakes to avoid, and how to prepare for it, so you do not end up in a dead marriage God was warning you about all along.

What it covers

How to prepare for an attractive godly wife
The lies you were sold about marriage
The common mistakes that land a man in a marriage God never intended for him
The dating advice church culture hands you, and why it does not work
What marriage actually is, without the fantasy fluff
Whether you are ready for the difficulty of marriage, and the questions most men never ask
Discernment: how to say yes, when to say no, and mean it

All of your bonuses

The full audiobook, read by me, with my wife reading certain parts
Read and listen at once, the words moving as I read them
Highlight what hits you, and write in the margins where only you can see it
Send one chapter to one friend who needs it, free. Choose wisely
The book club, where other men are on the same page you are
Two book club video calls a year, with the other men and with me
One library, holding every book I release from here on
Lifetime updates. When I make it better, you get the better version, free

$17.99

Ends 16 October 2026.

Then $35 on release.

Releases 16 October 2026. Read it, listen to it, or follow along with both, and every future edition is yours.

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This book prepares you for marriage. Walking it out weekly with group coaching and other men is a different thing. If you want that too, consider joining the Brotherhood.

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HIT Clothing

This door opens when the work behind it is finished.

“Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth.”

Proverbs 5:18

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